Archive | January, 2011

2 Thoughts I Have Been Meditating On

1. If you are preaching moralism that could be taught by an Old Testament priest, or another religion that has some of the same values as you, you aren’t preaching a New Testament, Gospel-Centered message. Christ must be the strength for our obedience and the answer for our failures.

2. Not more strength and effort, but believing and TRUSTING Him more (Faith), and love for the Lord is what gives us strength, power, and will to obey. Col 2:6


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Thai Culture is Interdependent [Thai Culture]

The value of helping one another motivates cooperative behavior in the community and reinforces a sense of neighborhood… They bind their relationship through reciprocal services such as assistance and exchanges of food.

- From a study done by Dr. Suntaree Komin, a Thai psychologist and a Fulbright scholar, who wrote a publication entitled Psychology of the Thai People: Values and Behavioral Patterns.

Implications for a Missionary:

  • Encourage this in the church!
  • Since this is already respected, and because the Bible says it, let them see your good works and glorify your Father which is in Heaven.
  • Get involved in community activities, outside the church, as Christians or in the name of the church.
  • Have work days to help people.
  • Be helpful.

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To Keep you Updated on our Trip this Week…

I have already scheduled some posts to go out on some highlights of our trip. I hope they will remind you to pray for us as we travel and keep you updated on our progress.

I will also try to take some pictures, write some short posts on my phone, and post them if I can find some time and internet over there.

I am eager to go and looking forward to it very much. Thank you to everyone who has helped make this possible, I look forward to giving a good report when I get back!


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A Little Fun is Expected [Thai Culture]

Thailand has been known as the Land of smiles. Work and play must contain at least a little Sanuke (to have fun, to enjoy oneself and have a good time).

- From a study done by Dr. Suntaree Komin, a Thai psychologist and a Fulbright scholar, who wrote a publication entitled Psychology of the Thai People: Values and Behavioral Patterns.

Implications for a Missionary:

  • Don’t be boring.
  • Don’t be a killjoy.
  • Don’t be a stick in the mud.
  • Have a sense of humor.
  • If you are naturally a stiff, learn how to relax and have some fun.
  • Plan some times to do activities with friends. Just as friends.
  • When teaching something serious, possibly illustrate it with humorous or ridiculous examples. Studies show that humor greatly increases retention anyway.
  • Smile!

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Education Isn’t the #1 Priority [Thai Culture]

The findings of the study revealed that educational values and competence hold a medium level of importance…This finding can help missionaries adjust their focus.

The Thai people are not interested in the content of missionaries’ teaching. If being Christian enabled them to get benefits and helped in finding jobs, knowing English, and opening up chances for a better life, they might consider being Christians.

- From a study done by Dr. Suntaree Komin, a Thai psychologist and a Fulbright scholar, who wrote a publication entitled Psychology of the Thai People: Values and Behavioral Patterns.

Implications for a Missionary:

  • Preach sermons that will help them.
  • Use as many creative ways to teach as possible. Everything doesn’t have to be called a lesson.
  • Activities of the church should demonstrate teaching.
  • Create a curiosity, get them to ask questions, and you don’t have to tell them you are “educating” them.
  • They are at least curious of your content, they probably just aren’t too interested in lectures, so find ways to teach line upon line, and precept upon precept.
  • Show how not knowing the truth hurts their lives and how knowing the truth helps them avoid real heartache and pain.
  • Maybe emphasize a series on Proverbs. The Lord does have some good advice.

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Thai Ego and Saving Face [Thai Culture]

The Thai are first and foremost ego oriented, characterized by the highest ego value of being independent, being one’s self (pen tua khong tua eng), and having high self-esteem. Thai people have big egos, a deep sense of independence, pride, and dignity. They cannot tolerate any violation of the “ego” self whether that be Buddhism, the king, the nation, or parents. Despite their cool and calm front, they can be easily provoked to strong emotional reactions if the “self” or anybody close to the “self” line, like one’s father or mother is insulted. Basically, it boils down to the question of “face” and “dignity”.

Since Thai culture values “ego” and “face”, straightforward, negative performance feedback, strong criticism, and face-to-face confrontation techniques and challenges should be avoided. “Face-saving” is a key criterion in handling all person-related decisions, particularly negative ones. Compromise is often used as an effective means to save face and to keep the “surface harmony” even at the expense of some task.

- From a study done by Dr. Suntaree Komin, a Thai psychologist and a Fulbright scholar, who wrote a publication entitled Psychology of the Thai People: Values and Behavioral Patterns.

Lessons for a Missionary:

  • Work on church discipline/restoration. Confront sin lovingly from scripture.
  • Be as nice as possible. They call it manners in the States.
  • Develop relationships in which you can correct and train people in righteousness.
  • Compromise your preferences when they are just your preferences.
  • Encourage rather than criticize.

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Much Easier Support Options

I know that we have made it as difficult as possible to support us in the past, but it is far better now. Many people have expressed frustration about the difficulties of trying to give online, so we have some good news for you!
 

There is no need for a PayPal account to give online, all you need is a credit or debit card! So, it is a 2 minute process instead of 20. PayPal is still the gateway, but you don’t need to go through the tedious process of signing up with PayPal any longer. I want to thank Vision Baptist Missions for making this available!

 

There are 2 options:
1. Support us monthly – This is what we will live on.
2. Non-recurring help toward special projects (like our survey trip).

 

DEMO

 

If you would like to help, we have a form on our website that looks like this:

 

Which will take you to a page that looks like this:
Super Simple!

 


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Emotions are More Important Than Facts [Thai Culture]

A rational or apologetic approach may not work well with the majority of the Thai people, but an intuitive, feeling, or affective approach, seeing Christ as the “Man for others” and the one who can deliver them from all fears, may be considered as a new way of meekness in Christian witnessing.

For the Thai, religion is felt emotionally, not rationalized cognitively.

- From a study done by Dr. Suntaree Komin, a Thai psychologist and a Fulbright scholar, who wrote a publication entitled Psychology of the Thai People: Values and Behavioral Patterns.

Implications for missionaries:

  • Emphasize how the Gospel enlightens our minds, so that we can think clearly and not be dependent on emotions.
  • Teach that emotions must be subject to facts
  • Don’t deride emotions and feeling, but instruct them to be infused with passion for God!
  • Develop a strong and effective music program in the church to give proper outlet of emotions of praise to God. Like the Psalms.
  • Use instruction on music as a way to teach how our emotions should be stirred by and dependent on truth. Not vice versa.

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Buddhist Worldview and Foundations


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The Blessings of Deputation

Every day I am excited to wake up and do what I get to do. To me, deputation is fun and exciting.
Yesterday I think I talked to 5 different missionaries, and at some point they all shared their opinion of deputation. So, I thought I would share mine, except I woke up today and found that a very good friend of mine wrote it for me, so I am just going to quote it, because I agree whole-heartedly.

Maybe unlike many missionaries, I think deputation is an unbelievable opportunity that Independent Baptist have. I think most bad attitudes about it come mainly from:

  • those who don’t know how it works and/or have a lack of training.
  • those that have pride issues and are unwilling to do something so humbling.
  • those that are lazy and not worthy of support in the first place.
  • those that have had a bad experience along the way.
  • those that have convinced themselves that deputation is “broken.”

There may be reasonable objections to it, such as, the amount of time and money that it takes for a missionary to get to full support. But I think if you look at the big picture and weigh out the pros and the cons, it definitely leans towards the pros.

Deputation can be taxing on the family at times. Driving thousands of miles and spending endless hours on the phone may not seem like the most fun things in the world. But after finishing our deputation, I believe it is a tremendous blessing that many don’t get to participate in unless you are headed to the mission field.

Here are some of the pros or blessings of deputation:

Prayer Support – And I don’t mean this in a cliche way. I was humbled and still am by all the people who let us know that they are praying for us. People who I would of otherwise never met, except for traveling on deputation, are now interceding for my family. In church culture people always “say” they will be praying for you, but when you meet real prayer warriors your opinion changes, at least mine did.

Financial Support – Like all ministries, money is involved. Missions takes money. It is a heavy load for a church to fully support a missionary in most cases. A lot of churches struggle with supporting their pastor. Deputation is an opportunity for missionaries to receive support from multiple churches allowing them (the churches) to financially support a missionary by doing their part, whether big or small, they can be involved. We never charge for anything, but people want to support missions and this is a way for them to see your mission.

Preaching – If you like to preach then you will love deputation. I was able to preach in churches of all types and sizes. No only did this help my preaching ability but we saw the Lord use the messages in the lives of many. The Word is preached, people are helped, and God is glorified!

Fellowship – I love meeting other believers! All over the country we were able to meet believers who had the same love for the Savior that we have. There were many that we were able to fellowship with, worship with, and enjoy one another in the Lord. Memories and friends were made.

Partnership – Along the way, people that become familiar with our work chose to partner with us. They partnered through prayer, financial support, or just by staying in contact and encouraging us. It is a partnership that seems a little more personal than just feeling like a number.

Ministry – Deputation is sometimes referred to as pre-field ministry. And it very much is ministry if you go about it with the right heart and attitude. You can be a blessing to churches just as much as they can be a blessing to you. What a privilege we have to be doing the work of the ministry and be receiving by the work of the ministry.

After you wade through the politics and weed out all the crazy stories and experiences, deputation for a missionary really is a blessing.


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